Need Patience w/My Un-Confused (?) Husband.....

[ediemarie]

Hi BobbiJo - I posted to you on the piecing forum, just thought I'd swing by and check out this thread. it is difficult not to get swept up in the drama of the H isn't it?!! So difficult - but glad that you are getting through it - just keep thinking how you'd be of a help if this was a good friend of yours. Don't own the misery, just help him through it.

Just a quick comment on the sex thing: my H and I haven't had sex for 2 years - 2. yes, it's killing me. But, our physical touching is actually quite good. He hugs me, kisses me on the lips, cuddles with me, etc. All of this took time to bring about after his A. Just give your H some time. He'll come around. He has tons of stuff to figure out and he probably figures the sex thing will work itself out in time. He has so many things to fix that sex is probably the last thing he is thinking of.

Hang in there! You have tons of positives in your sitch!