Hi Cat - just swinging by to check in on you. Glad you are getting sleep and focusing on new things. That will truly help you find you again - so easy to lose ourselves in all of this. Nice analogy with the vipers - whatever it takes to focus on those things that are good -

whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.

Em

Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley