Well I just found my big girl pants and believe it or not they still fit even if I haven't worn them in a while. H's problems are his, his frustrations are his, I am just feeling the collateral damage and this, too, shall pass once he has finished the hay project.
So to make things worse, though, he just called from Iowa. They are getting freezing rain. Unless he turns around and comes back, there is no way he will make the party. I said, do what you need to do to be satisfied with your day. If you need me to take S to the party, fine. If you want me to come pick you up halfway and take you to the party so you don't lose all the ground you covered (his suggestion), fine. Whatever you need, I will support.
He is supposed to call me and let me know here soon.