Nothing happened last night. I didn't ask him to stay for dinner beacuse the kids had already mentioned they had dinner at the party. I asked him to stay for a while until the kids would be ready to go to bed. He did, -with his jacket on(I had mentioned in the aftrenoon he looked good in it but I am sure his intention was to show me he is leaving for the night). We talked a bit about how their afternoon was, he asked me about the newborn and he took off.
Today has been very quiet. No phonecalls, nothing. He is going on a business trip abroad on Monday morning coming back on Thursday and he'll be coming at the airport while I'll be there. We'll see if he calls.
He wants to take the kids on Saturday to the C. I agreed because I'll have my Friday afternoon free and when he goes, my C told me she'll try to talk to him again about HIS problems not our R, because she is very anxious to start sessions with him (and stop with me, says I do not need it I just need a self esteem boost and I can get my -"no more than usual problematic person"- paper). I am pretty sure he has alot to talk about. I don't think it will be easy to convince him though.
We'll see.
Ali, keep strong, I am always thinking of you, do not worry about "using me", I am just happy I am useful hopefully in more than one way... (attempt to be funny)
Lizzy, get the calendar, I think it's made in the states, it has the month day order in reverse order, not the European one. Controlling is my middle name as far as he is concerned, so you are right. I must pick wisely...
