I think your last post is the most positive I've read in while. The way I see it -from a woman's point of view- she was asking reassurance that what she HAS ALREADY DECIDED to do, is going to work out fine. That you are going to be there...And you did just fine. That's all I would need to hear from my H in a situation like yours.
Patience IS a virtue.
Let me add one last thing, you are an amazing person, I admire you very much for the strength, wisedom and the way you are fighting for your family. I am very happy that things seem to be working out for you.
