sometimes, my d hugs me so hard i almost fall i say don't fall me down d says okay mama
d does not say
"gee thanks mama, you really make me feel good about myself"
d has no clue how to use sarcasm yet
i did not say to h
"oh, thanks for hugging me over the trash can, that really makes me feel good about myself"
i just let H hug me
this conversation is making me sick i'm gonna be more mad at H than I was yesterday because you're so vehemently defending his position i said i hugged him back and the deal was over
the underlying behavior powering that exchange causes me grief...