Kalni, you have had a lot happening this past week. Sorry I haven't stopped by but I had a week from he!! at work. I love the calendar idea. H and I have been sending suggestive text msg off and on for the past two weeks. Giving him something like that would be a huge 180 for me.
I am glad you indication that your H is thinking about coming back. My H sees a different C than me and shares nothing about his sessions. I really think his C has told him the solution to our problems is to get the he!! out. My ray of hope is that H went to see a new C a couple of weeks ago although he is still seeing to other one.
As for the list of what you want if he comes back...that is a hard one. I can think of a lot, but I worry so many will be seen as being to controlling by my H. Pick wisely and carefully.