if one of your children came over to you while you were taking care of the trash and hugged you from behind how would you react?
would you ignore the child simply because "they" were the one who wanted the hug...they were the one who wanted to express their love for you at that moment..would you be mad at them if after having their love rejected they walked of and pouted??
not saying you should treat your h like a child..but if he wanted to hug you because he loves you and for some reason in that moment that he watched you empty the trash...he felt love for you and wanted to express it by hugging you...the thing to do might just be to hug him back...or at least sqeeze his arm or something...
