On Saturday morning W initiated some small R talk, which basically lets me know the direction we're moving in.

Friday evening I let W use my credit card to book a train ticket to visit her friend out of town next month. W thanked me, and she thanked me, and she thanked me.

Saturday morning W thanked me again for letting her use my credit card, so I said to her it's no problem cos we're working as a team now, and I walked over and gave her a hug. W held on to me tightly, then said "Us two, we've got a long road ahead of us, do you think we'll make it ?" I said to W if she was committed to the M as was prepared to do whatever it takes then we would make it, and that's the attitude I've taken. W didn't respond she just held on tightly, then she said in the future we'll have to talk more, I just said "True". We just stood locked in this embrace for a good while and W even kissed me on the cheek.

I said to her it's nice being able to embrace like this without D6 interrupting, W agreed and said lets make the most of it. Then we heard a familiar scream from D6, "Urrrgh !!!!, you two kissing, that's disgusting", then she pulled us apart. Oh well it was nice while it lasted.

So patience is a virtue, I'll continue to wait and let W do the talking about the R and not push too much from my side.

Lan


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing