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Need to vent!!!!!!11111

This evening started out great. I took off early from work to go to monster truck show, decided to go last night. had a great time with s8. waited in line after to get autographs for an hour. Left fargo to get home bout midnight. Quarter to, wife calls. daughters on and off bf (witch she is preg now with him(I think thats why she let him back about a week ago)). drunk again had broke her phone and kicked in door and put hole in wall w/chair. Oh yeh, pulled her hair and put his hands around her neck(no marks,found that out after police where involved). wife says a little about what happened and says i should move in with daughter, that has been brought up before. At the end of phone convo w says well are you going to do something about it? I said yes.
My plan when i got home was to get whole story, take d20 to police station to file and find out what we can do legaly first. Then if nothing else go to where d xbf is and confront most likely with force (kick his a$$).

After typing i still may go over there tonight.

I got home and d20 had already called police and we were going to meet them at d20s apt. THATS WHEN W SAID HE WANTS TO TALK TO ME. I SAID WHO? SHE SAID OM NAME. I SAID WHAT ABOUT? SHE SAID ABOUT HOW TO HANDLE D20 PROBLEM. I SAID I NEED NO ADVICE FROM HIM! WALKED OUT WITH D20 AND SLAMMED DOOR.

Got home with d20 and we had a talk with w also tring to fig out what to do. after i tried to wait the 24 hr before confronting w but i couldnt. I knocked on bedroom door and walked in, i think she was on phone with om, doesnt matter but he prob listened also. I said -

those things you said to me make me feel like less of a man. I wanted to kick d20 xbf a$$ yesterday when i was unable to confront him. I dont give an apes a$$ (thats how it came out?) what om has to say about d20s problems. at the end of it i said dont put that on me.


In my mind (whats left of it) she is his puppet telling me what to do. I guess thats my best description.

Does anybody think i shouldnt go confront d20 xbf right now?

more info - w and i have been trying to get him out of her life for her own safety for quite a while. nothing works(cheeseless tunnel). Kinda like trying to convince w to stop seeing om.

I'm starting to calm down a little.

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