Hi my update is not much is happening with H. No contact for a week.... And I'm really happy. I dont even really miss him - Yay!! The DB stuff has really worked to help me GAL.
I possibly have detached too much - but I dont care cause it feels great!
Have had a lovely weekend - doing so many 180's ATM, and having a ball. Went out both nights on the weekend. Last night a v. cute, v. sweet guy tried v. hard to get my phone number and was v. attentive all night. !!!! H would die of shock if he had seen me. I loved the attention, and felt great.
At the start of all this mess, I thought I would give our marriage a year (we need a year of separation before we can divorced) before I started even thinking about dating someone new. But now I'm starting to waver..... will give myself to the end of Feb, and see if H initiates any contact in that time.
I'm enjoying meeting new people, and discovering what I actually enjoy doing - those are my goals for 2008. If H decides he wants in, then great (but lets hope he has a bit of competition!)
