Hi BA I am thinking of you and praying for you. I have no idea how you could possibly detach from your H given the state he is in at the moment - incredibly difficult. Your situation sounds serious, and I have no idea what to say.... keep looking after yourself, you really cant control the situation or him at the moment, and in the end he is responsible for all actions he takes even if it is because of the MLC fog.
Would you think it is appropriate at this time to go away for a weekend, to get out of the drama, and re-focus on yourself? Maybe it would be good to get away just for a night to have a change of scenery?
Is there someone in H's life that could shoulder the responsibility of H's crisis at the moment, so that you can stay detached? I'm thinking a trusted male friend, or relative, that could be responsible for H's physical safety??
Please let us know if you are OK, and how the weekend went.
