Take a nice gesture for what it is, him simply being kind and nothing else.
Do not look into going out for dinner with the family as an attempt of reconcilliation.
When it comes to the kids, they need as much normalcy as possible and if they can at least see Mom and Dad getting along it will only add to their security.
HSS, IF, and I am only saying IF, you end up Divorced, for the sake of the kids you have to be able to comunicate with this Man.
There will be graduations, and weddings and other blessings in the future, and the kids will need both of you there.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
