Walkin' Towards The Blessing!

[FaithfulH]

4Kids, SF, and MMF,

It is great to hear from you! Thanks for stopping by!

HHIF,

Since your thread is locked up, I will reply here. I would highly recommend that you go back to my 1st thread and read through. Here is the link to the beginning of this thread..and you will find the link to the other 4 threads of mine: Page 1 of this thread

From what I can tell, our situations are VERY similar. My W and I had been married just over 26 years when she dropped the bomb in Aug '06. She never moved out...nor did I...just different rooms in the same house. She asked for "time and space" and I gave it to her in spades. She initially filed for "legal separation" then changed that to "divorce" a month later even though she acknowledged there were lots of changes in me. It was over 6 months before I saw any sign of softening...then things moved rather quickly. Your sitch seems to be moving even more quickly than mine...which by DB standards is light speed. Be aware that you are likely to experience lows...even as things improve. Just be ready...stay on your knees...remember what got you here...and don't repeat those mistakes. You must be near perfect...or every setback will lengthen this journey immeasurably. It sounds like you are doing well. There are lots of great Christians here who can help you...and you have found some of the best...AmyC, 4Kids, MissMyFriend...and there is BrandNewDay...I_Wanna_Make_It_Work...and others. I highly recommend you start a new thread and keep posting if you want people to help you directly.

Thanks for stopping by...and I will check in periodically to see how you are doing.