But..... I do like some country music.... But you did say ya had some... nephew was not feeling well so we only played 4 games... I won the first two by default ( He scratched on the 8 ball) I won the third one out right and he won the last... Funny thing happed on the way home. He started asking why I would want to go to Vegas my myself..I told him I was having a controled MLC. I kind of had to get my head togeather.... Then somehow I don't really know how it started but we started talking about being married and how his brother was married as long as me.. and one day he just told his wife she had to find himself, he had to get away for a while.I said ya I know ow he felt sometimes you feel like you are putting all of the effort in and it takes two to work on a marriage. He said ya his brother felt he too was putting in all of the effort and so he went to stay at a friends houose for a month. (they have no kids). And they boh agreed to go to counciling and they are back togeather now.....He said sometime when one spouse feels like they are doing all of the work and the other see's nothing wrong... the spouse that is content needs a little wake up call...
Wow, this is the closets I have come to talking to someone other than you guys about my problem... I do think he will keep it between us but maybe not... well I did not say anything about the affair so even if he does say something it will not be that bad....
Wish me luck on that wake up call coming in 20 more days..... oh yea today is almost over so it's 13 more days......
Bye Dr L
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
