Happy birthday Sue. Gee, it never can be about anyone but him, can it? I guess I'd say ignore him and have a good time with your family. I know you will miss your little girl. There is something so wonderful about the mother/daughter bond. I felt it again when I visited my D22 last week. (She's still the size of a 13 year old, so it's easy to forget she's grown up.) You know, I feel it with my daughter, why can't I feel it with my mother?