Hey NCB - haven't read your whole sitch but I see some of my pals posting to ya so thought I would too!
Personally.. I think I'd toss the panties (the Salvation Army doesn't want used ones ). Not return them, not keep them, not escalate the stupid psych game she seems to be playing, just get rid of them. Like H said, it won't be fun anymore if you do that. Not to mention.. those things tend to be pricey. It will not only be "not fun," it will get expensive for her!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread