I am sorry if it comes across that I am telling you to hold on for the rest of your life... just in case.
I want for you to be happy, and I have seen so much growth in you over the past couple of years, things you have accomplished all by yourself.
I think you have reached a place where you finally have some peace, and that is a wonderful place to be mentally.
My point was that I don't believe that your Husband is finished with his crisis. And you know as well as I do that these crazy MLC'ers can turn on a dime.
It is different IF you are truly done and want to move forward, but if you are doing it because you want to believe his words when he tells to go and find someone else, that is something else entirely.
My Husband also told me that he was sorry that he hurt me and maybe one day I would also find someone else to love me and to share my life with.
You have the support from everyone here for whatever you decide to do, but do it for you, for Hope, not because of what anyone else is telling you.
((((((((hugs)))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
