Originally Posted By: disappointed
I have been thinking all day about a word that Seek mentioned - 'control'. I think I have definiately being way too controlling in the past. I need to drop this and think more about my interactions being more positive

I hope that my comments didn't come across as a judgement - I was just trying to look at how your H might react, recognizing that his perceptions are his reality regardless of your intentions.


me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
before
now