I have been thinking all day about a word that Seek mentioned - 'control'. I think I have definiately being way too controlling in the past. I need to drop this and think more about my interactions being more positive
I hope that my comments didn't come across as a judgement - I was just trying to look at how your H might react, recognizing that his perceptions are his reality regardless of your intentions.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now