Originally Posted By: Jeff223

Her email response: "Best for whom? I beg you to put the children first."

WTF ?????????????

I almost wrote her back saying if she "put the children first" she would not have kicked their father to the curb without trying even one step to reconcile. I felt like telling her if she had put "us" first, even a few times, we would still be together. And since when is spending quality one-on-one time not putting the children first?

But I did not. I laughed it off.


Wow, Jeff, I would have a very hard not responding like you wanted to. It is amazing how they justify it to themselves that the kids will adjust fine with a divorce. In fact, it is because of the kids that I am DBing so hard.


Me: 43
W : 34
M : 10
T : 13
S : 6
D : 4

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