I definitely let God lead the way. I have done a lot of praying about this situation, believe me. I know He has helped me do the best I can. I say this with the deepest respect to you and many others that have posted; why is it that so many think eventually my H (and so many others) will eventually want to reconcile? From what I have seen, even here on this BB, most do not return. Even some of the "old timers" that post advice here are still not reconciled. So I do not understand the line of thinking that "in his time", he will be back. I do agree, however, that he wants to see me with someone he feels is better for me, someone that can be happy with me and share a good life. He has stated this more than once.
My thanks for your support.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
