take a step back from your status and you will realise what great progress you have made so far. That should ease your mind.
About what's bothering you at the moment...
I maybe wrong but perhaps he doesn't want to do anything that he believes is not right yet. Not just for him, but mainly for you.
There is great book I've read, I have mentioned it before elsewhere, if you can get it, get it. It is called "I love you but I am not in love with you" by Andrew G. Marshall. It says among others that once you get over the crisis, the couple could have a ritual that means the beginning of a new era in their R. One of the rituals could be wearing their rings again in front of their family, or doing something like a party etc.etc. Maybe that's the way he subconciously see these things. His wants to honour all that he is avoiding so far because now he realises their meaning. Maybe, just an idea, he feels that some things are going to be done only in the proper WAY and TIME declaring that your new life together beginns. Give him time and be positive. Be thankful, it helps. Kalni
PS Thanks for checking in my sitch and your input.
