I also struggle with what to do to actively get a life. I have a little girl and although she keeps me busy most of the time I also need to try to figure out how to get a life for myself. I think I've kind of lost myself in being a wife and a mother.. and now that I do not have to focus any attention of the "wife" responsibilities at this time I'd like to come up with some things I'd like to do for me. I'm just not sure what they are or how to go about doing them.
I'm going to try to make plans for next Saturday.. Maybe find somewhere to Karaoke. I love to sing and used to Karaoke a lot (many years ago now). My H is planning on taking D2 on their first overnighter since the separation next Saturday night.
I'm glad you've got your best friend Rue to keep you company.. and I hear it is a good way to meet new people... hanging out at the dog park!