Hello BobbiJo- I figured I would pay you a visit as you had done on my thread before. I hope you are having a decent weekend.
Seeing how much of a seeming metamorphasis your H is in the midst of is pretty remarkable :). The fact that he is at this point of being greatly proactive speaks well of what you must be doing (cuz it's always a two person process to either get it right or screw it up). So "staying the course", as you said seems like just what you should be doing.
And if you "need some help being patient" (as we all do), you need only ask the Lord and he will surely help you with this.
Things are clearly going well and I hope that a positive trend will continue for you. I will certainly be praying for that.