Thanks for following my story. Bobbijo and Seekpeacemind, you are right. I made a mistake. I meant move forward.
I had time to think about it some more and basically it's the same DB rule applying in my sitch too: patience!
He came over today to take the kids to a party. First of all we weren't back from a friend's house so he was waiting for us outside our home. Then we got upstairs, got the kids ready and I ... left to go visit a girlfriend that just had a baby. He stayed with the kids at our home for an hour or so because it was still early for him to go to the party. I hope I didn't overdo it, I think he expected me to stay around until it was time for them to leave. I had informed him on the phone earlier that I was planning to leave.
See what happens when he brings them back. I was thinking maybe to ask if he wants to have dinner, maybe? I'll play by ear. (I am running out of English words, have you noticed?)
Thanks all Kalni
PS Woog, I am planing to do what my C says. Pre requisites. I wouldn't know how to express them and not sound as if I am setting terms, but I feel I have a lot ot time to figure that out until he actually decides to make the move. He is SO SLOW!!!
Guys, I am very passive at the moment, is that normal? I should be thrilled, no?
