She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

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Well this is interesting. I was sitting here beside my laptop this morning, when I heard *ding* (she had just signed on to MSN Messenger). This was a first since she left. I have suggested it to her a number of times and she hasn't done it. This is how we communicated when I was working out of town this past spring and it was really nice.

We ended up chatting online for an hour (I actually missed my yoga class!). Then she said "call me" and we talked another 30 min on the phone.

It was all positive...she never once said "if we go our separate ways" (although I did a couple of times). She said "if we do get back together" at least 3 or 4 times. At one point she said "who ARE you and what have you done with my husband?" We laughed a lot, and it seemed to be a great convo.

I didn't push my agenda at all. Obviously no promises at either end, but any day where our interaction is mostly positive is a good day