Frank, when are you going to start thinking about Frank, yes I read all the posts, the road to hell is paved with good intentions so they say.
All I see from my feeble perspective as a complete outsider is Frank posting post after post after post ad infinitum about what his wife is doing or her friend. The last few posts seem to sinking even lower. JMO.
YOU constantly say how great you are/have been at taking charge providing whatever--start doing it.
I realise you have been depressed but behaving like this is not the way to go.
Reclaiming myself?????????? this title is far from the truth.
"I'm taking my ball home more like"
Sorry Frank but I hate to see you behaving like this.
Can you do just one post without it having what? with whome when your wife did such and such.