Yes - your right - I should not tell my D if she is going to see him so she wont be disappointed - hes not reliable now. H emailed me 5 days later - 5 DAYS - said "sorry about last Monday and not showing up I had to work." Well Im sorry but thats still not acceptable - there is no excuse for not calling that night or even the next day after your D leaves a voice mail "Daddy I have my coat on where are you - I'm waiting". Working - yeah right. THen he says well can I see her this Monday night. I just feel like not even responding. Im just so tired. Trying to detach as much as possible.