That sounds like some great progress to me! At least he is leaning toward coming back enough that he is asking the C how he should do it if he decides to come back. You are right about keeping busy doing your own thing b/c I think our H's get scared away if they think we are hovering waiting to pounce on them the moment they seem interested.....
But I am so hopeful for you and can't wait to hear what happens next. And when you said you wanted help moving on, I took that to mean moving forward with things, not moving on away from your H. Was that right??