Harassment laws. Even though they'd know it was from me, proving it would be impossible.
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Guess you have your answer as to why she's getting up at 5:00 am now.
No, it's not because of the messaging because she rarely does get up that early now. She seems to only get up then when she is restless. It also seems to coincide with nights when we have almost no contact, or contact that is 'curt'.
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The radio thing we are going to have to chat about.
Ha, I knew you'd say that! I just think it's an interesting coincidence. The radio station (Jill FM) is computerized so the songs have been scheduled way in advance. No 'forces of the universe' in action here. But her lack of response was interesting.
Today I'm getting back on program. Not going to do anything about her messaging. It's enough to know it continues. She has not said one word to me this morning, but she did forward me an e-mail that had a funny picture of a dog that looked like our dog squashed into the seat of a car with the caption "One Sign You're Driving Too Fast........".
I actually feel ok. A lot of stress though. Not so much because of her or the situation, but my mental state and financial pressure.
Oh, I did forget to mention that last night as we were driving to the Comedy show and I was talking about the current financial situation and the jobs I was doing that would be paying in a week or so which would help me catch up more on the bills, she told me she was going to be "working more" so she could make more money. It wasn't clear if she was looking for a job or not or just expanding her business somehow.
She then said that she might not be able to drop off /pick up the kids from school. Then she proceeded to say how she could 'pay' one of the other moms to take our kid to school.
Now, I work at home and have a very flexible schedule. I always get them whenever she has to work during those times. Why would it suddenly be 'not ok' to ask me to help?
So, I told her that there is no need to get someone to drive them, I will do it when needed.
This stuff makes no sense. It's like she feels like it's not ok to ask me to help WITH MY KIDS. I think it's because she has some bizarre idea that since we're not going to be 'friends' then she can't ask me for anything.
One other thought. I really dislike her friend 'P' who, as you may recall, came over last weekend and stayed to 'support' W. Well, she hasn't said anything about her coming this weekend but I have a dilemma. Since, in the end, this is MY house, I feel I have the right to say that I don't want her 'divorce friendly' friends coming to stay. I would prefer she go stay with THEM instead.
