Okay what about wives to H's. Do we as wives acknowelege VD?

I know for me it would be a complete 180 to simply ignore it. I have always done something extra special for him.

I want to do something, but H and OW are a couple (in secret) now. Not him and I.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!