If you guys are separated I would be very cautious about sending flowers to work. From what I am told, when a woman gets flowers the other women flock around and ask "who are they from" and that puts your W in a very uncomfortable position. It says to all the other ladies "what a great guy, how'd she ever let him go". I think it could be viewed by her as not respecting what she's telling you..."gimme space!" and may actually be embarrassing to her at her workplace but that's just me...any other opinions out there? Now, again, it also depends where you are in your sitch and only you know that better than I. Btw, I'm giving and sending my W nothing, that's OP's job now. I might send myself some flowers though....or maybe one of those big cookie's with a message that reads "You've come a long way, baby!".