Hello, everyone,

I've been considering a lot of things lately. I am becoming more concerned with W's increasing denials about her actions and motives, and the revised story line she has been building up. I think I need more "intel". I have plenty of evidence about her activity last Spring and early Summer, but I have little to corroborate things following that time.

I have considered contacting the OMW. I have also considered contacting W's friend and co-worker (a very nice, Christian mother herself, who has always sent spiritually-oriented faith-based emails to W for years.)

Short of that, I am considering hiring a PI.

I am sensing that my W is getting loaded for bear, as she is being coached by her mother (a very battle-hardened WAW herself with three such "victories" under her belt). I also know W has been talking with a high-profile female lawyer who has a very anti-marriage, pro-divorce reputation.

I don't want to find myself entering a pitched fight without more preparation.

Any thoughts?


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.