It really is. I honestly don't think my H has intended to alienate the kids either.
But if the kids don't go right along with whatever the MLCer wants that's when the problems arise. Well, that and the fact that he has not kept in any kind of regular contact with them.
I feel for your sons too. They are old enough to understand what your H is doing and to know that it is wrong and make their own decisions wether to see/speak with him or not. That is hard on them. To be so disappointed in a parent at any age is sad.
