This situation no longer consumes me. That is something we all have to learn in order to save ourselves.
That is so true. Hope, whatever you do will be fine, and I wish you well. Goodness knows you have had a long and hard time.
But as you know it is more than saving ourselves, it is getting to a place that is actually better than the one we were in. Not that we wanted any of this to happen, or would have avoided it if we possibly could, but that where we end up can be better for us.