It's never too late, BT. We all backslide. I know how you feel.

Ask yourself, "is this working?" We know the answer!
Ask yourself "is what I'm doing bringing her closer or is it pushing her away?" We know the answer!

Don't wear your heart on your sleeve anymore, BT...make a promise to yourself, and hold yourself accountable to that promise. Be firm with her. Be indifferent. But don't be nasty or mean. Say "if this is what you want, I won't stand in your way". A huge 180 for you.

Relationships with OP rarely last, and sometimes the WAS wakes up. Right now that is your only hope, I think.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!