Zu, hey girl! Your sitch sounds a lot like mine and so many others. Besides him wanting a bit more "kinky" sex, it sounds just like most M's that just get in a rut -- life, work, kids, housework, cooking dinner, etc, etc. Unfortunately, he doesn't realize that a lot of this is just reality. The fact that you are actively working to try to spice up your M and not allow it to be put on the back burner is admirable, but until he realizes that a lot of this is just *normal life,* he may end up looking elsewhere for greener grass that will turn brown as soon as he realizes that that won't "fix" his issues/problems.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
