Dear Shades, it is amazing how badly they handle ALL of their situations! As if they have taken how to be a prize a** 301, and all graduated summa cum laude.
FWIW I agree that it sounds as if OW is putting pressure on your h. Probably one of those sad people who has to have a man in her life to feel validated. And as we know, as the bottom of their little shrivelled hearts is the knowledge that what your h has done to you, they could do again to them, and with less remorse this time!.
What an nasty thought to have to live with.
Have a great weekend. I would love to meet you sometime
