Thinking about this, my doubts about vactions only come from memories about some vactions we had which had pretty awkward moments. As your sitch is completely different, you'll be ok.
As Dom says, you are really lucky that you still do so much together. There is good and bad in that too, but at least you have a framework to work from. Some starting place.
Take care,
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)
