I may not get her back, but if I don't it won't be for lack of effort. I will exhaust every avenue before I give up. I can also tell you that the most important thing to me is her happiness. If she isn't happy with me, then she shouldn't be with me no matter how much it hurts me.
Now that is true love!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
