I agree with you. He told her that she did not need a car as OM's house is about 5 mins away from his business where she works. However, when she had no car, on Saturdays she was crying that she was at home and could not get out of the house (she does not want to work weekends). She even asked me to come and pick her up to buy me some food from the supermarket as I was short on money.
That was a great gesture on her part but I have too much pride to take help from her after what she has done. I declined and was not about to do something to make her situation any easier (not a doormat).
I know the truth why she has had to borrow her grandmother's car again until OM can buy her another (I wonder if he ever will). WAW is telling D13 that OM is right, she does not really need a car of her own and that she can keep grandmother's car for the time being anyway.
He must be feeding this crap to WAW and she is being brainwashed to accept his point of view. Amazing stuff really.
He is very dominating in my opinion. He has to be right and can never be wrong. Unfortunately, I think my WAW is learning from him when it comes to dealing with me and the children.
He is unbelieveable really. I have never met anyone with such low morals who believes that he is better than anyone else.
I think he is using her and with 3 divorces and 1 marriage annulment under his belt, I think one day, she will be another casualty, oh! unless they are soul mates of course.
I do not know whether she is afraid of him she may be but I think that she is afraid of the alternative, being on her own emotionally and financially.
This OM is a dufus, looks like one, is 10 years older than WAW at 49 and is a social misfit.
