Originally Posted By: mrs.cac4

I guess what I'm afraid of is that neither I nor cac will ever really see me as anything but a recovering LDW. And an LDW is such a bad thing to be.


A selfish LDW, is a bad thing to be.
An uncaring LDW, is a bad thing to be.

are you either of those things?


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as far as dealing with being an LDW;
If you can deal with an extreme case well, then anything lesser, is cake.

To take a look at a hypothetical "extreme case":
If next month, you had to undergo a medically required hysterectomy, and your SD dropped to zero... would that mean you would then stop having sex with your husband, because you had no hormonally based 'drive' any more?

Or would you continue to love him, and show him that in a physically intimate way?

Last edited by Dom R; 02/02/08 05:09 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle