Add me to the list. Just spent an hour on the phone with W (hung up 15 min ago) and I told her the same things.
She said "if I decide to make this separation permanent, will you be OK?" I said "hell yeah, I just need to know...it's the limbo that's killing me!" I'm pretty sure she was asking if I wanted her back just because I missed her, or because I have a different person to offer to the relationship. Then I told her how I thought I loved her before, but this separation has showed me that I didn't love her then, nearly as much as I do now. She said "I love you, too".
The changes in her have only made her MORE attractive to me, and the changes in ME are making me appreciate everything in my life so much more, including her. She said "wow, that is cool". I asked her if this was freaking her out, and she emphatically said "NO!, keep talking".
I have never been like this in my life....there is no going back now; what would be the incentive?
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
