it's a long long road......

[cat03]

perhaps a bad idea, but have you thought asking him if you can see the phone? you'd be able to figure out if it is active or not.
And the guessing statement he made, how odd. Perhaps later on when you know you can talk about it without being defensive you can ask him to elaborate on it.

THanks hon have a great weekend too, fight those gremlins of doubt, give them a good kick for me.