Yes, husband, I know... I'm still a rookie and you're due for a purple heart or something by now. LOL.

I just meant that I guess even though it's been 264 days I might still should be concerned about STD's -- given the distinct possibility that my W has been even more deceptive than she has been admitting about what has been going on. I really don't know how long their relationship has been going on, nor if or when it might have gone physical. What I do know is that W has a definite pathology for fabricating a justification for any action she might take, and that can be downright dangerous.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.