S7 was talking again today about W looking for a place out in the country, and that his mother was promising he could have a tree house and other niceties when they move away.
I didn't appreciate hearing my S7 glowing about his mother trying to relocate away from his father. W had said the other day she was looking for land to the east of the metro area, and was thus looking into school systems in those areas. I told W that she was not to be making such decisions unilaterally, that i have a say in it as well. But she ignores me. I have told W that a move eastward is not in my best interest, and that a move in any other direction would be preferable. W tries to claim it would be too expensive in any other direction, but that is utter B.S. -- she just wants to move to where she can be closer to the OM, and that's the fact.
So now she is going to my S's and trying to bribe them into loving the idea of moving away. I told S7 that his mother was not giving any consideration to his father and her sons' relationship with him. I let S7 know I was not happy with his mother continuing with her plan to put distance between me and my sons. S7 replied that W said I could also relocate east if I really wanted to be with S7 and S3. S7, in his innocence, does not understand all of the complications and buys into his mother's deceitful rationalization -- and so he just naturally thinks that I would find this a perfectly acceptable "solution" as well.
This is so unfair.
And all the while W just continues to push on with her plans, and has no regards for my say in anything. It has been this way since the bomb (and before that actually) -- even when she pretends to hear me out, she still continues right along, always resuming course at some point, towards her own single-minded selfish goals.
I would let her but for the fact that it involves the separation of me from our S's.
