I have not posted to you before, but I have to say that I would be really leery about CPS actually protecting my kids. After all, it is a Governmental Agency and it's not going to be the most effective or efficient in carrying out it's mission.
I wouldn't hesitate getting in the OM's face to protect my kids. To hell with what your W may have to say about it. Ultimately, that burden to protect them falls directly on you. I know your finances might not be there yet, but I'd fight like hell to get custody if you believe the OM or even your W are neglecting those kids in any manner what so ever.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
