I have the same problem too never can stay "dark" long enough to see if I ever get her to commit again. Because of her complaints of how I didn't show her love (and I didn't) I have an overwhelming urge to show her the new me when I think theres an opening. I thinks the main think thats stops her is the fear that the changes in me wont last. You have a lot to be happy for dog so good luck


Me 38
WAW 29
D 4
Married 9 Together 11
Bomb June 07
Separated Jan 08
Reconciled May 08 awesome, happy, and blessed