If it helps you, think of it like this: you're being supportive, strong, not getting upset, giving her the space she needs, she'll remember it. My W has thanked me for being there, giving her the space, being patient. Don't be needy.
Interesting comment about her feeling supported, LN. I had a really tough day at work today and right at the end of the day she called and we had a super nice talk on the phone. Later, I text messaged her "After the day I had, your voice put a smile on my face. Thanks!" She text messaged me back as I was driving home an hour ago.
I'll type it exactly as she did: "i want u 2 know your support is appreciated MM 4:16P 02/01"
What a nice way to end the week!
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
