Hope,

I have to agree with everyone here. Your H is not out of his crisis. All this business about him wanting you to find someone else to love you. My H said this way back when and I'm sure yours did too. It's just another strategy to help them try to alleviate their guilt without actually having to do any work themselves.

You can walk away or leave the door open. It's up to you. Either way we are all here for you.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15